Just found this old emails back in 2004, I must have kept it to prepare myself. I finally know whats going. Things like this is not always logical, dont always expect a logic answer. Yeah when we know how to express it , then it can become an answer to fulfill your doubt.
This is pretty good tips, but not all can apply for now...
1.* Start each day with a kiss.
2.* Wear your wedding ring at all times.
3.* Date once a week.
4.* Accept differences.
5.* Be polite.
6.* Be gentle.
7.* Give gifts.
8.* Smile often.
10.* Talk about dreams.
11.* Select a song that can be "our Song".
12.* Give back rubs.
13.* Laugh together.
14.* Send a card for no reason.
15.* Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
18.* Do it his or her way.
19.* Know his or her needs.
20.* Fix the other person's breakfast.
21.* Compliment twice a day.
22.* Call during the day.
23.* Slow down.
25.* Ask for each other's opinion.
26.* Show respect.
27.* Welcome the other person home.
28.* Look your best.
29.* Wink at each other.
30.* Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
33.* Set up a romantic getaway.
34.* Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
35.* Be positive.
36.* Be kind.
37.* Be vulnerable.
38.* Respond quickly to the other person's request.
39.* Talk about your love.
40.* Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
41.* Send flowers every Valentine's Day and anniversary.
42.* Admit when wrong.
43.* Pray for each other daily.
44.* Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
45.* Watch sunsets together.
46.* Say "I love you" frequently.
47.* End the day with a hug.
48.* Seek outside help when needed